“I need to let go of him, why to let go of him, how to let go of him? This sounds like you.
Most women make something out of nothing, when it comes to guys. Over the past few years, love ones have come and go into your life. What went wrong? Perhaps trying to force yourself on someone is not the best way to go. But “why or what if?”
The following are some suggestions:
Letting go of the one you love is never easy. First of all, seek medical help if you need to. Not all people deal with pain the same way. Some people will pop out at their ex house, plot against him, calling him two thousand times a day begging him to come back to you, threaten him with ending your life, or telling lies. What you need to do is move on and get rid of all the things that remind you of him. Move out of the neighborhood, if necessary, for your own good.
There comes a time in your life when love knocks on your door and it makes you feel affection and desire for him. But nobody ever told you that no matter how much you love him. If that person doesn’t love you back, doesn’t even know you exist, or decides to leave you, reality strikes; the one you feel strongly for is not meant to be with you. It’s tough but is possible to let go of somebody you really love.
You need to move on, life is too short to go after somebody who doesn’t love you back. Don’t ever think for a second that there will be a future with him. If he really loves you, wants to be with you, he will go out of his way to prove to you that he loves you and wants to be with you. If he is not doing any of this, is time to move and stop living in the world of “what ifs”
He is not asking you out.
Even if the guy is shy, he will talk, love, and acknowledge you; this is for the girls who still daydream about dating somebody who doesn’t even know they exist. If he wants to date you, he will ask you simple as that, if he is not asking you out, he never will.
“What if I ask him out?” Go ahead, if you have the guts. This is not the 18th century, right? How much of a man is a man who doesn’t have the guts to ask you out, eh! Your take.
Why you need to move on?
There’s somebody out there for you who really loves you and is not afraid to ask you out.
He is giving you mixed signals and signs. Really think about it, do you want to be with somebody who is not even sure of who he is, or what he wants!
He is never there for you.
He brings you more pain than joy.
You keep justifying his actions to yourself.
The most important thing to keep in mind is, what never was, will never be.