Yes, you’ve seen them, talked to them, liked them, thought about them, but unable to commit, or spend the rest of your life with them. The number of successful, pretty cute ladies seems to be on the rise. They flood social joints, electrifying and uplifting the atmosphere.
A closer look at their lives reveals that majority of them are successful professionals, single or unmarried and possibility of having a child are high. Why is it then, that they are single? Obviously, guys have been around, and have definitely taken note of these cute beauties. Why then are they single? Could it be that they cannot maintain a boyfriend? Or is it that they are high maintenance that guys prefer to keep a distance? The questions are endless, so I tried to dig deeper and find out why they remain single irrespective of their beauty.
The first reason why guys keep a distance from such ladies could be related to their appearance. Dressing and hairstyles remain pivotal to a lady’s beauty. In fact, women have been given absolute authority to present themselves as beautiful as they can in the Bible. However, the manner in which they approach beauty varies from lady to lady. One can dress up to look beautiful, acceptable and appropriate, hence win the hearts of many admires, or can dress up to look sluttish and drive away admirers. The manner and style of dressing remains a personal preference, but if you intend to be in a relationship with a decent guy, then dressing remains vital to your goal. No man who is ready to settle in life is willing to marry a slut, and for the few whom do, they always move out of the neighborhood and begin their lives a fresh. Dressing also encompasses use of makeup and jewelry, Men tend to avoid expensive women, or well known as high maintenance. Naturally, men are simple, and like to remain simple. Women are naturally complex, and love to remain complex, but a less complicated woman wins the heart of many admirable men. The high maintenance look usually gives an insight to the life of that woman, how submissive, respectful, tolerable and lovable they are can be reflected in their general outlook.
Secondly, professionalism is catching up with women of all walks of life. With the rate of women empowerment, the number of women climbing up the ladder of leadership in corporate America is rapidly increasing. This means that women are also increasingly surpassing men in family income, and find themselves meeting a huge chunk of domestic needs. This empowerment, if not managed properly, tends to throw some professional ladies off the hook, that, instead of being a supportive partner in marriage or relationship, they become intolerable, unbearable and materialistic. Their profession takes priority over their family obligations. In light of these kinds of thoughts, men tend to avoid professional looking women, purposely to protect their egos from being crashed by the shifting roles in the family. This does not necessarily mean that men are intimidated by the success ladies have, if anything, a well balance successful and professional lady is like hot cake in the eyes of men, who are ready to settle down and start a family.
Lastly, their presentation in terms of behavior in a social setting determines if a guy is willing to introduce himself to her and get to commit or just have a night with her. Women, who are reserved, but outgoing, do not drink foolishly. Neither do they show their teeth to every stranger, nor move their fingers up and down every Tom, Dick and Harry. They maintain decent conversation, are aware of their surroundings, and respect themselves as well as those around them. A good number of attractive women tend to behave otherwise, possibly blinded by their beauty, or in a desperate attempt to show how outgoing they are. Yes, they are fun to hang around with, but a NO NO, to start a family with. As a result, most of them get wasted and end up in desperation, irrespective of their six or five figure income. Marrying such a woman is like buying a ticket to infidelity and eventual divorce. For these reasons, and many others not mentioned, the number of attractive women is on the rise, and unless they change their approach to life, they are likely to remain unlovable.