Unfortunately, when you enter a party or a bar, not everyone has a sign hanging over them letting you know if they are there for fun or they just want to hang out with friends. To find out if a woman is interested in you or not, you need to be able to focus in on the subtle cues she is showing. You need to look at body language, clothing, and her facial expressions to find out what her motives might be. We have six tips that will help most of you read a woman’s language and find out her true intentions.
1. Reading a Woman’s Body Language Starts with a Smile
This is usually the first sign of whether a woman is interested in you or not. Look for that smile if she is looking at you. No smile and it is very likely that you are not her type. Take that as a strong hint to move on to someone else.
2. A Woman’s Body Language Moves Down to the Shoulders
The shoulders are the window into a woman and her confidence. If you see that her shoulders are slumped and rounded then she probably has bad posture. A woman with good posture is a woman with a good sense of herself. They are confident and in a very positive mood. This usually means she is more receptive to a connection with someone.
3. A Woman’s Body Language is How Well She Dresses
How a woman dresses for a night out will tell you exactly how she sees herself and how she wants others to see her. If a woman is dressed sexy, she obviously put some effort into it to attract others. It won’t matter if it is a sexy dress or a sexy t-shirt and jeans, when she dresses hot; she usually is looking for attention.
4. A Woman’s Hair is Important to Her Body Language
A woman’s hair can tell you a lot about her intentions. If she has her hair pulled down around her face, she is hiding from attention. This tells anyone approaching that they need to be cautious. Conversely, if a woman starts to toss her hair, flips it, or just plays with it, it is usually a good sign that she is flirting with you.
5. A Woman’s Body Language and Her Friends
Too many friends around a woman and the body language messages can be too confusing. A pack of women is usually too focused and involved with their own conversations and the eye contact is between them. If there are only two women together in conversation, then the opportunity to connect is much better, especially if they are scanning the room.
6. When a Woman’s Body Language Says Approach Me
The above tips are usually the more subtle hints that a woman’s body language will indicate to you. However, some are a bit more blunt. If a woman begins to arch her back or stick out her chest or pelvic area in your general direction, she might be saying to you that she is very approachable.